To say it made my year, would be an understatement.
Here’s the story of how it all unfolded.
When I first met Alyssa’s future husband Jeff, I wasn’t quite sure what to think. Granted, at the time of our meeting, the poor guy was on display, surrounded by people trying to figure out if he was good enough for Alyssa. Turns out he was. So around the time she said goodbye to Maui and moved back home, they fell in love. And I was super stoked because I had been rooting for him.
Then this happened.
Anyway. The next time I saw this guy it was at their weddingand he was already famous and I was super intimidated.
He had just become BFF with Beth Moore. And for those of you who don’t know me, Beth Moore is kind of my jam. I can drop a relevant Beth quote in almost any conversation. Because her bible studies have had a profound impact on my life. And God uses people to shape me.
Here’s me at First Baptist in Houston for a Siesta Scripture Memory Weekend. And the closest I’ve ever gotten to Wanda Beth. (I’m in the middle left) I was way to nervous to try to meet her. Plus we all know I would just freeze anyway.
Now, if you remember, I get nervous around celebritiesand Jeff had just hit celebrity status. So, my way of handling my nerves was to tell him, “I’m not quite sure we can ever truly be friends because deep down I will always wonder if I’m just using you to get to Beth Moore.” (Insert cute shrug)
Well, Jefferson is a class act and a perfect match for Alyssa.
And now that they live in Maui, I’m getting to know Jeff on a whole ‘nother level.(Insert fajitas comment here) And it is such a blessing. The character that Jeff demonstrates reminds me of David. He’s got such a teachable heart, humble spirit and just a tenderness about him in the way that he loves Lys. And don’t get me started on how much he loves Kins.
Right before they moved back Alyssa sent me a text that Jeff had surprise for me that was going to rock my world. My immediate response was “Did he pack Beth Moore in his suitcase???”
Well Beth Moore didn’t quite make it to Maui, yet. (Fingers crossed) But her assistant did send me a package in the mail.
And when I texted Alyssa thank you. She informed me it was all Jeff. Having Alyssa back on Maui is a dream come true. Having her with her amazing husband and sweet family is icing on the cake.
So I texted him back.
Love , Love, Love,
The Girl Who Lives in My Head.
PS This is actually my favorite video of his. I like how courageous and raw it is. Probably because of this
And then, they all started popping out the babies. And that was pretty sweet.
But then apparently, babies change things.
My social life as I knew it changed.
So I stretched my wings and met some new people.
And that’s when I met these crazy girls.
And they changed my life for the better.
We went on long drives in Blanche.
And got our craft on.
And became dear friends. Who walked through all kinds of seasons together.
It was wonderful.
They hung around another year.
And our friendship went even deeper.
We talked about God. Our hopes and dreams for the future.
We went on crazy adventures. Talked about life, love and boys.
And then Alyssa moved away.
And fell in love with this guy.
So of course, we went to the wedding.
And had a ball. Catching up, laughing and dancing the night away.
And now she and her sweetheart just moved back to Maui!! And brought a little extra something to the party.
(Sorry Kins, I know it’s not the most flattering shot)
Risa stayed on Maui a little longer. And our friendship went even deeper. We had a blast. Late night laundry chats. Laying in my bed eating ice cream. Talking about everything under the sun.
(I also got to know this amazing lady)
And then in a fairytale, Risa met a boy at Young Life camp. And they fell in love. He popped the question. The stars magically aligned and Alyssa and I got the privilege to help her pick out her dress.
(Ring the Bell, Baby)
So of course, we went to the wedding.
Here’s the handsome man who swept her off her feet.
And now, they have a little bun in the oven.
And I can’t wait to meet him!!!
This is just a snapshot of a few of the amazing women that God has brought into my life. And I adore them all.
Sometimes when we are in a season of life that we wish was different, we can overlook what is right in front of us. I’m so thankful that my life has not gone according to plan. I would have missed out on so many amazing relationships and adventures. I would not trade anything for the the friendships God has given me. If I were married with kiddo’s I would not have been able to invest in these women with the faithfulness, depth and drop everything mentality that being single allowed me to do. I try very hard to not take it for granted. Because it won’t always be this way.
So, the question of the day.
Is there anyone or anything in your life that you are overlooking because you want things to be different? Are there people you could be investing in or things you could be doing because of the way God has designed this season of life? What is keeping you from going for it?